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It Only Gets harder....

 Good morning.... Just came back from helping my parents put up their artificial tree.  That was the easy part -  it seems every time I stop by their home (which seems to be daily) things seem to just slide down a steeper slope. At first it is difficult to see the changes that are taking place, they seem to be so gradual. Eventually you reach a point where the changes seem to slap you in the face to make sure that you realize how bad things are getting. Today was one of those days. Dad loves to watch sports on TV, baseball in the summer and hockey in the winter. He was able to navigate his television with no problems and would often be able to tell anyone when a game was on... even if I did not think their was a game! Eventually this began to change. Dad could no longer find games on television. He was not sure which channels the games would be on, even which channels would be showing a game. I made them a list of the sports channels theat are available on their TV and mo...

Time To Sit and Vent...

 This disease is awful. My father is going down a slippery slope and he is pulling my mother along behind him.  She is one year younger than he is and her health is starting to fail. A lot of it is because of the stress that watching and helping my father. It hurts to wake up every morning and not being sure what I am going to see when I stop by to visit. I talk to  mom every night to see how things went and I keep a log of what is happening. I am lucky that they only live a few blocks away! I have found an Alzheimer's/Dementia page on Facebook and have started following. IT is so difficult to read because it is World Wide and nobody  knows what advice to give because they are not sure of what supports are available in any one part of the world. So many people are struggling watching their loved on (LO) suffer. I want to say we are lucky as we do not see many of the behaviors that others have to deal with. We are not lucky because we are watching my dad no longer be ...